Finally the moment of truth. The wait is over. The past has defined if we hit our goal. The decisions made will determine whether we were good or not. If we were performing and effective.
Verified? Objective achieved?
Simple question, because the facts are only two:
- OBJECTIVE FAILED
- these targets are met
We try to make sense of two different outcomes, starting from the first.
OBIETTIVO FALLITO. Genera grosso sconforto. Senso di inadeguatezza. Scarso livello di autoefficacia. Contribuisce ad abbassare il proprio livello di autostima. Quali le reazioni possibili?
- "Sono un buonannulla. Non sono in grado di fare niente. Sono un fallito e non sarò mai capace di fare qualche cosa di buono."
... oppure
- "Ho fallito. Sono consapevole. Ma ora proverò ad esaminare cosa mi ha portato al fallimento per capire come riuscire in futuro."
Reazioni diverse, ma quale la migliore? Ovviamente, e senza dubbi, la seconda risposta è da privilegiare. E' il passo necessario per fare quel salto di qualità che i migliori sono in grado di fare. Vi conforterà sapere that was a great success, such as reaching a goal, often stems from an endless series of failures, provided that we invest energy in understanding what really characterized them. Most people want to achieve success through the successful assertion makes sense. But often do not work that way. When you encounter a failure, can be learned from the best life lesson. Check what mistakes you made. Address them. Approfondiscili. Do not be scared by them, use them as corrective feedback, as they are. Errors lead to greatness, but only if you stop judging them negatively. Winning is not always possible, but do everything to try to win more and yes you can.
targets are met. My compliments. You have been efficient in all respects. Have you worked to get where your goal of getting said. You have "won" because your goal was made well from the beginning. CLEAR, COMPLETE, AND PLACED IN A DEFINED TIME PRECISE. Reachable objects. You analyze the situation of departure and arrival, your goal exactly. The ACT and you've viewed. The act led you to make decisions and those decisions have been effective. Moral of the story?? Have you reached your goal. Congratulations. Are you ready for an ambitious new ground, but do not forget one thing .... Rejoice and celebrate.
A goal is a win-centered, and after each victory is great rejoicing and celebrating. Messener and Mario, at the time they reached their target, although so different in form but identical in content, cheered and celebrated. And no matter what your goal is more modest than theirs. The content is always the same. Goal achieved.
Enjoy your goals and you're ready to plan new ones, sometimes more ambitious ...
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